Need Advice???????????????

It would surprise me if this is a serious question, but I'll treat it as one. My advice is not to think the worst or plan for something that may not happen. Your wife needs all your positive energy and support. And I'm sure that as a mom, her biggest worry right now is not herself, but her kids. Let her know you are taking good care of them while she recovers. Let them be there with her, but watch them closely for signs of stress. Get a hospital psychologist or a clergy person to come and talk to them and make sure they are handling it OK. Make sure they eat and sleep. Beyond that, there is nothing you can do or need to do. Any legal or custodial issues that would need to be resolved can wait unti you know what you're dealing with.